Social networks come and go, friendships remain
December 19, 2010
Remember MyBlogLog?
I must admit I'd almost forgotten about the network, even though I still have its widget on this blog.
But when news of the leaked memo from Yahoo broke this week, showing it as one of several products "to be sunsetted", I was reminded of how it once played an important part in getting to know new bloggers, or getting to know bloggers you vaguely knew of better.
At one point it helped tie blogging communities and communities of readers closer together. For my own part I can think of quite a few bloggers I initially hooked up with via the MyBlogLog widget, the network in itself, or followed closer because I saw they were reading my blog.
The great thing is that these are all people I now follow either on other networks or via my RSS-reader (yes, still use one of those).
Perhaps that shouldn't come as such a big surprise as this often happens in real life too.
Just after graduating, in 2002, I spent some time working in a local pub which has since been turned into a modern gastro pub /restaurant with little of the atmosphere left.
But the regulars have just moved to the pub across the road, and not much had changed, give or take a few deaths from old age, when I last visited in 2007. They were even discussing pretty much the same issues as when I used to work there, a feeling I sometimes get with blogging communities too.
In other words, the real and virtual worlds are often not so different as they are portrayed, though, with a bit of luck, online we get to download back-ups of the coversations we've had in the soon-to-be-defunct networks.
Oh, and I know this blog's been very quiet the last few months: it's only because at the end of the summer a lot of good things happened at the same time and I've felt a bit like being in a benevolent pressure cooker - if such a concept makes sense - since. More on that later though.
Update 20/12-10: Of course, if Delicious is closed too it's more of an issue (I've blogged about this in Norwegian here), but as it's easy to export your bookmarks I'm quite relaxed about waiting to see where my Delicious network is moving. At the moment, it looks like it'll be to Diigo.
I infrequently log into my MyBlogLog account... still, I was unhappy to hear it might be going away.
I hope your holiday was a good one.
Posted by: delmer | December 27, 2010 at 10:19 PM
I had almost forgotten about MyBlogLog, but as I write: it was valuable to me at a point in time, must have been for a few years there, and I got to know many of the bloggers I follow today through it - you might have been one of them actually.
I'm not quite sure when I gave up on the service, at one point it seemed to be flooded by spam, it stagnated and I think there were even a few changes that irritated me which I've now forgotten about. Perhaps I should search my blog to find out;-)
As for my holiday it's been a good one: two days with family dinners and two days where I've buried my head in books (historical crime) and forgotten all about the outside world.
Still, it's also been a very thoughtful Christmas as yesterday it was 17 years since my dog saved my life after a hit- and run accident. I was 17 when it happened so it's strange to think back and realise I wouldn't have had those last 17 years if my dog hadn't found help in the nick of time. It makes me feel very grateful to be alive.
How's your holiday been, with eight kids and all?
Posted by: Kristine Lowe | December 28, 2010 at 12:36 PM